What the actual hell is love?

 What the actual hell is love? (ft.Avg.Joe) 

(Disclaimer- The author of the blog is young and inexperienced. Nothing written in the below blog attempts to hurt sentiments, I apologize in advance if anything is offensive. Please enjoy reading! ) 

Tonight, I dedicate my blog to the stars, love, is a funny little thing that makes people go crazy. To be in love is magical, it's a sense that plagues your mind, love is that warm hug your mother gives you when you're scared, love is when your dad cracks bad jokes to make you smile, love is when your friends don't need your words, they know that their presence will instantly calm you down. So, Average Joes, Plain Janes, and my non-binary bros:-

Cheers to another starry night and those twinkling stars!  

 and that's enough for me today. 

Now, you may wonder, what's with the love? well, I'm out here wondering the same thing, but as someone who has spent some years on this planet, I can conclude, love is literally everything. Love is money, love is happiness, literally everything a human craves for. People run after love like lizards after flies, and love is EVERYWHERE. 

Imagine, you as an actor/actress, minding their own business, but WAIT! there's someone else minding their own business! How romantic! that's love. Now imagine yourself as a songwriter, you can possibly write about anything, but you know love is what people want to hear, so you'd naturally want to write about something that gives you money. And look at that! Love songs dominate music today. 

Now, these are just some scenarios, but they prove my point. 

Love is money, Love sells today, Love is everywhere and everybody wants to fall in love. 

But why Joe? Why does everyone want to fall in love? 

Well, trust me, I have no answer for this either. I get it, I mean falling in love is pretty cool right? But it comes with its own set of disadvantages, lots if you ask me, the whole "How to confess?" and the butterflies and the nervousness and the attitude that comes free, and the trust issues that build up. Honestly, the advantages look small when you look at the disadvantages. 

But, there's one answer to everything. 

Love means someone to take care of you.

Humans are pretty emotional, they need someone to share their feelings with, and what is better than another human with their issues? Honestly, it's the "We'll solve our problems together" thing that's so attractive to us. Imagine, you just had a rough day, and a very attractive person (at least for you) takes care of you and makes you forget your worries. Isn't that the dream for all genders? It sounds good too, like another person who cares about you, who wouldn't want that?

That single answer just takes the whole cake. Love makes you feel important, it makes you feel wanted, and that's why it's so popular among us, because we, humans, feel unimportant until someone admires us. Just imagine being admired by people, it makes you think about what exactly they saw in you, which in turn makes you feel as if you are important, you've managed to make a person admire you, which means you have some impact on this world, you aren't as invisible as you think. 

And that gives us an end to our question. 

"what the actual hell is love?"

Love is a form of selfishness, you crave attention from one person. You don't want to share their love, and it's not only with lovers, it's with friends and family too. Love is just a human being human. It's nothing more, nothing less and it would never be anything more than this. 

And that's love to your average world citizen

And that's love to me. 

And that, gives us an end to today's very lovable blog!

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