Wishin' you guys a happy Pride Month! (ft. Average Joe)



Welcome to Pride Month! 


(Disclaimer- The author of the blog is young and inexperienced. Nothing written in the below blog attempts to hurt sentiments, I apologise in advance if anything is offensive.) 

Now I know I'm 2 days late, and I apologise for that but here's to happy pride month! We all deserve to express ourselves and be whoever we want, and honestly we should be proud of that!!

So here's to another chaotic post!

Well, I am someone who struggles with identifying my sexuality, like I've stated before I'm not old and wise, I'm pretty young yeah? (that's not saying that the old and wise are experts in this area, I mean, I'm super inexperienced) and the whole identifying your sexuality thing is so difficult for me, like where do I start? What do I do? and the whole thing, but my friends who have identified their sexualities tell me that there is no starting point, and this confuses me so much, because how do you discover yourself hmm? And that's where my Average Joe side steps in, and tells me, that I have time, it may take me years and lots of questioning but man, I got time. Sexuality identification is hard for everyone, there are lots of people in the world who are actually thinking about this, I'm not the only one thinking about this, and honestly, what's the hurry? Discovering yourself is bound to take time, I'm not gonna wake up and suddenly identify as a particular sexuality, and it's ok for it to take time, because this is all for myself. I'm discovering myself here, so I want to go slow and think about everything before identifying as a particular sexuality.  

So why am I talking about this? 

Well recently, a lot of people came up to me and told me that they assumed my sexuality, and honestly, that made me question myself, I was watching my every move and trying to find out my sexuality, and that made me really uncomfortable, because some stuff I did made people think I belonged to a particular sexuality and they didn't hesitate telling me that. Now people might think they helped, but honestly, I had zero clue of what was happening and I got pretty anxious, because I thought other people could read me better than I read myself.

So, I use this platform to talk about this.

I just want people to know, that some stuff they say leaves a big impact on someone, and honestly, even If I belong to a particular sexuality, I'll come out myself, I mean, pride month is all about taking pride in what you are, and I like being like this! When I do find something about myself, I'll make it clear, but right now, let me enjoy pride month!

That's it for today folks! Let us be supportive of everyone out there, no matter their sexuality! This pride month be proud of yourself! 

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  1. Unknown3 October 2023 at 07:03

    So relatable, honestly! Keep writing, I'd like to read more!

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    1. Average Joe20 November 2023 at 04:59

      thanks a lot!! Hope you like the other parts of this blog!

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